Frederick Kempton

 

 

Fred received his RAE Long & Meritorious Service Award in September 2007 from Bart O'Toole

 
 
Fred received his class 1 (level 5 in modern parlance) in season 1984/5 and by season 1987/8 was Harrow's training officer.  He held this post until 2003/4 by which time he had combined it with that of chairman.  For many years he also served as the County's Southern Division representative as well as being one of Harrow's delegates to the Middlesex Referees' Association.
 
Harrow society President Graeme Thorley paid the following tribute:
 
Fred was the man who got me through the training course and as such was one of the key influences on my refereeing career.  Indeed he was a key influence on a whole generation of Middlesex referees.  He had a passion for the game, for refereeing, for Harrow society and of course for his beloved Chelsea. 
 
He was a principled man with a strong belief in doing the right things in the right way and was not backward in coming forward if he thought standards were slipping.  I had to admire him for that.  He always remained approachable as training officer and was free with his advice if approached for guidance on any refereeing matter.
 
My very first game after qualifying was at 57 Club in Neasden where the visitors were Barnet MO; it was in the London Commercial League division 1.  I lined to Fred and got the princely sum of £6 for my efforts.  I well remember him trotting across during a stoppage in play to upbraid me for not being in line with the second last defender, something I hope I managed to remedy in my subsequent lining career.  I also noted the diagonal he ran and copied it once I started refereeing, assuming this was the way it was done.  Of course it was the opposite of what most referees did so Fred was also responsible for me upsetting legions of assistant referees by making them take right backs when they lined to me!
 
In recent years Fred had suffered far more than his fair share of ill health but showed remarkable fortitude and as much good humour as anyone could have the right to expect. 
 
He was genuinely delighted to receive his RAE Long and Meritorious Service Award in September last year.  It was great to see so many of his refereeing colleagues present, some of whom had travelled a great distance.  It was equally great to see Fred with that twinkle back in his eye as he received the recognition he so soundly deserved.
 
All those who knew Fred and worked with Fred know the contribution he made to Harrow society.  We shall all miss him.  We send our condolences to his partner Pat and his son David, who was himself a senior referee and who did so much to support Harrow.
 
 
Funeral Arrangements
 
The funeral will be held on Monday 19 May starting at 13:00.  Please arrive by 12:45.  It will be held at St Giles' Church, Swakeleys Road Ickenham, UB10 8BG  Tel: 01895 622971.  http://www.stgileschurch.co.uk/  The church is located at the junction of Swakeleys Road and Long Lane.  There is a location map under 'Contacts' on the church web site.
 
Instead of flowers the family have said they wish to collect donations for Kidney Research UK.
A reception will be held at the Barn Hotel, a short drive from the church.
http://www.multimap.com/hotels/?&hloc=GB|HA46JB

The Barn Hotel
West End Road
Ruislip
Middlesex
HA4 6JB

Tel : 01895 636 057
Fax : 01895 638 379

A map will be provided at the service for those who want one. The family would be delighted to welcome everyone to the reception. To help with catering please could you advise the president or David Kempton if you plan to go to the reception.
 

For any queries concerning the arrangements contact Graeme Thorley (details as per web site) or David Kempton on 07973 300600.